You know those BIG questions in life where the answers are “I don’t know”? Well I’m in a really interesting time of life which feels like a fat “I don’t know.” For someone like me who likes control–rather the illusion of control–this is a great time to begin to prepare for death–the biggest “I don’t know.” In my work supporting people through death, I see so many people clinging to life–what they think they can control, yet we simply cannot control death. All we can do is surrender. So for now I’ll take my own advice and work on my surrender into “I don’t know”. Ick.

How are you with your “I don’t knows” in life?

As usual, thank you for giving me a minute of your life to think about the end of it. 💜🙏🏿

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