DEAR DEATH DOULA
Guidance, Reflection, and Real Ass Conversations About Life and Death with Death Doula Alua Arthur
What must I do to be at peace with myself so that I may live presently and die gracefully?
This question sits at the heart of Alua Arthur’s work and Going with Grace’s mission. For years, she has guided thousands of people to more deeply explore their relationship with their mortality—spreading a transformative message: thinking about your death—whether imminent or not—will breathe wild, new potential into your life.
In these intimate 45-minute one on one sessions, you’ll have the opportunity to connect directly with Alua for compassionate conversation, practical support, and soulful inquiry around death, dying, the business of dying, and how living in relationship with your mortality can bring you deeper into your life.
Every day you live is an opportunity to get closer to the life you want. These sessions will support you in getting there.
WHAT TO EXPECT
These intimate 45-minute sessions are a space for truth, curiosity, and care. They invite you to explore the full scope of your humanity - your dreams, body, emotions, anxiety, relationships, fears, end of life plans, and life as a whole.
Together, You and Alua May Explore:
- How to prepare for your own death or support someone you love who is dying
- Navigating fear, grief, or uncertainty about death and dying
- Finding a renewed sense of purpose and joy in life through the lens of death
- Integrating a relationship with your mortality into your daily life
- Guidance on becoming – or deepening – your practice as a death doula
Every session is unique, guided by where you are presently in life from the perspective of your eventual death.
Who Are These Sessions For?
You don’t need to be at the end of life to have these conversations. In fact, we don’t recommend waiting until then.
You may be drawn to a 1:1 session with Alua if you are:
- A person seeking deeper peace with your mortality
- Someone traversing alongside a dying loved one
- In a dying process of your own
- A death doula or caregiver seeking mentorship or perspective
- A human simply curious about how awareness of death can deepen your relationship to life
Who Are These Sessions NOT For?
These sessions are held as spaces for reflection, guidance, and meaningful conversation. While deep emotions and practical questions often arise, they are not intended to replace therapy, medical care, or legal counsel. Alua is not a licensed therapist, and these conversations should not be considered mental health treatment, crisis intervention, or professional medical or legal counsel. They may not be the right fit if you’re seeking diagnosis, clinical intervention, or prescriptive answers.
Instead, these sessions are meant to offer guidance, reflection, and honest conversation—a supportive space to explore life, death, and meaning with care, curiosity, and humanity.
Enter into a space where you can ask the questions you’ve been holding, explore your life and mortality with honesty, and deepen your understanding of what it means to live fully and die gracefully – just you, your story, and the space you need – held with care by Alua.
Spaces are limited each month and often fill quickly. Answer the invitation when it feels right. You never know what awaits you.
FAQ's
Do you have additional questions about One-on-One Sessions with Alua? Email support@goingwithgrace.com and our team would be happy to assist you.
Who are these sessions for?
You may be drawn to a 1:1 session with Alua if you are:
- A person seeking deeper peace with your mortality
- Someone traversing alongside a dying loved one
- A death doula or caregiver seeking mentorship or perspective
- A human simply curious about how awareness of death can deepen your relationship to life
Who are these sessions NOT for?
These sessions are held as spaces for reflection, guidance, and meaningful conversation. While deep emotions and practical questions often arise, they are not intended to replace therapy, medical care, or legal counsel. Alua is not a licensed therapist, and these conversations should not be considered mental health treatment, crisis intervention, or professional medical or legal counsel. They may not be the right fit if you’re seeking diagnosis, clinical intervention, or prescriptive answers.
Instead, these sessions are meant to offer guidance, reflection, and honest conversation—a supportive space to explore life, death, and meaning with care, curiosity, and humanity.
What will I receive during the session?
Each session is a 45-minute, one-on-one virtual meeting with Alua Arthur via Zoom. It’s a safe, supportive space for reflection, guidance, and honest conversation. Together, you’ll ponder life, death, and meaning with care, curiosity, and intention. While these sessions are not therapy, medical care, or legal advice, they offer a dedicated space to explore deeply, feel fully, and reflect with presence.
When are the sessions available?
Sessions are scheduled by appointment only, and availability may vary depending on Alua’s schedule. Generally, sessions are offered Wednesday and Thursday afternoons, and you’ll receive available scheduling options after purchase. Sessions should be scheduled and completed within 60 days of purchase, unless other arrangements are made in advance.
How long do I have to use my session?
Sessions should be scheduled and completed within 60 days of purchase, unless other arrangements are made in advance.
Can I have someone join me for my session?
Yes—another person is welcome to join your session if they are an active part of the conversation and the work we’re doing together. This can be supportive in situations like family planning or shared decision-making (for example, siblings or partners). Sessions are not intended to be shared as a “two-for-one” experience for someone who isn’t directly involved.
Please email support@goingwithgrace.com before booking your session if you are planning to have someone join.
Can I film or record my session?
No—sessions may not be filmed or recorded.
Is a scholarship or financial assistance available?
Limited financial assistance may be available. Please email support@goingwithgrace.com to explore your options.
What are the cancellation, refund, and reschedule policies?
You are eligible for a full refund of your session fee if:
- Your refund request is made within 14 days of purchase, and
- Your scheduled session is cancelled more than 1 week prior to the session.
Cancellations made less than 1 week before the session are non-refundable, though you may request to reschedule one time, subject to availability. Reschedule requests must be made more than 72 hours before your scheduled session.
All refund or reschedule requests must be sent to support@goingwithgrace.com.
Have a question that wasn’t answered?
No problem! Email support@goingwithgrace.com, and our team would be happy to assist you.
